Everyone faces a time in their life when they need to fight for his/her right and needs; unfortunately, sometimes it includes partner’s love. We are so choosy about love and we can’t bear anyone claws into our partner. But, if we love each other sincerely and we have the believe that our relationship is strong even because of several issues still, there are things that can help you in getting him back before the situation gets repairable. Following are few steps that help you in restoring your relationship
Take time for discussion
Make arrangements in a nice and comfy place to discuss with your mate about your shaky relationship. Permit him to discuss openly what he felt and what he feels about you and the relationship interrupting him. Then, talk to him about what you have felt so far and what cause the things to get wrong. Remember; never blame your partner about the past because it destroys the relationship. Don’t argue in harsh words with your partner and don’t call him names. In your discussion try to figure what he feels about the other lady and how long they are in a relationship? Try to analyze is he sincere with her or he just feels attraction for her. Stronger is the feeling for the second lady lesser will be the involvement with you. Compromising in this situation will not be effective at all in fact, leads to more complexities in life.
Avoid revenge strategies
You need or want something from your partner and at that particular time he will not be giving you. This is the situation that drives you crazy but, you have to make use of the tactics while dealing with the complex situations. Revenge may push him away from you and he will feel more attractive towards the other lady. While on the other hand, handling the situation with care and respect may make a huge difference and spice up your relation again.
Never play games
Managing harsh realities of life needs patience and courage. Suicide attempts, ill behavior, stubbornness, rude attitude and irresponsibility will never work in restoring your position back. It doesn’t mean to behave normally; you just have to adopt a moderate way to make things smooth rather than making it more intricate and unhandy. The thing that may break the relationship is calling names to your husband and not obeying him and disrespecting him. Try to be normal and respectful even when you both are indulged in hot conversation with each other.
Despite of so many ups and downs life goes on and making emotional decision is ridiculous. It is always suggested that make every decision with cool temper and patience keeping in view all the possibilities around you. Never ever harm your kids in your fragile relationship in fact, make a decision that maintains your kids confidence and individuality. It is largely noted that kids of separated parents or weak relationship lacks confidence, courage and self-reliance and it really spoils their educational and professional lives.